new account question

Ok i understand that you cant trust just anyone over the internet but what are people suppose to do if they dont know anyone on the server i mean how am i suupose to know someone when i cant get in lol it makes no sense that u guys would do that. If i offered to donate would u let me in possibly cuse i really wanan play this server but theres no way to cuse of this new absurd rule u have.

ikr -.o

ikr ikr?

it means i know right

I know what it means o.x